Why Are We Pick Up Artists?
Submitted by suave on 27 February, 2011 - 09:50We all have our moments in Game. What the hell are we in this for? First we do courses (or at least search on the internet) about how to Pick Up hot girls. Then we read books and search for decent websites with good demos and explanations.
I've been reading a book in Portuguese (my mother language), nothing to do with PUA. A part of it i found interesting says: an artist produces his work by untranslatable needs.
This sentence makes sense when taking in consideration the effort we put on to make our students believe in Pick Up - the same way we believed when we, RSG instructors, first started. I can talk for my self, surely. I've F-Closed best-friends-girls, winging with most of the guys from Rock Solid Game, including with Tony T (one of the best PUA in the world), Burto, in a two set demonstration after a bootcamp (the 2 girls paid for the hotel), Lee, in a perfect wing-man-rule-applied-set, Ace in a fun-two-set-out-of-a-night-club and Krauser (top 3 Day Gamer in the world) in an impossible two set, where he was the leading man and called me to wing him (read his "Best Moment In Pickup" for a little taste of the Set), to mention a few.
When you close a girl and your buddy closes her friend, it kind of creates a strong bond between you and your buddy. The same way you'll talk about the sex with your buddy, the two girls will talk too - maybe in an even deeper level.
Back to the sentence. "An artist produces his work by untranslatable needs". Every time there is someone looking, either its a mix-set (when there are males and females in the set) or a student asking for a demo-set, or it could be one of our friends from long-time-ago, an ex girl friend in the same bar you are...you name it. We are Artists. We are Pickup Artists, Seduction Experts, whatever you want to call it. We will perform.
Any Artist need an audience. This is different than qualifying to our friends or to the audience. It is being proud of our abilities and new personality. We study this to be able to PickUp the girl we are attracted to, even if she is upstage, or if she is the hottest girl in the club/street/bar/coffee shop...
The key is, we have to really be interested in her in order to, not qualify to her. At the same time, when there is an audience, even if of one person, it does make the set more interesting somehow.
We are called Pick Up Artists for a reason. We create attraction, turn it into desire, many times desire turns into deeper feelings. I'm talking about girls falling in love after a few dates. In my list of highlights i've got girls - who had said they don't cry about men - crying when i'm about to leave their country/city, others spontaneously saying they feel safe around with me - i've heard this a few times from different girls. Krauser had a girl laying in bed after sex (her boyfriend waiting in her house) and says "you got me...i'm another one of your victims".
We live for moments like this. We also offer moments like this, to our "victims". Sometimes they are poor girls stuck in boring relationships. We save them.
Of course we all close girls when we are alone. Some of us do Solo-Game every now and then (specially Day Game) but yeah, it is very satisfying when there is an audience.
I am in Brazil at the moment and there are a few PUAs here trying to learn routines. Then i open sets in front of them, without routines. N-close, K-close, F-close in front of them (not literally F-closes as i like my privacy). Same stuff we do in the UK, only, in Brazil, it's all new to the PUA's here. Some of them still want to hypnotize girls in order to F-Close them. We will, slowly, change this concept in Brazil.
Girls like Boys. Women like Men. There's no need to hypnotize, or get them drunk, or even lie to them.
Imagine George Clooney trying to get some girl drunk, or run routines on them...strange.
Back to the point now. We want an audience. If no one in the whole world saw us open the set, create attraction, N-Close, K-Close and finally F-Close...she is the audience...or, in last case, you are the audience. Be proud of your new hability and do it again! I've explained to a few girls what i did to seduce them (laying in bed after sex) and they loved hearing about it. The best parts were when explaining about take-away and things to stir their feelings, like making them angry with me, during seduction.
Game is On - wherever you are.
Beijos
Suave





