Rock Solid Game

Waaay back in July 2010, I’m teaching daygame in Vilnius……
We take the students back to the venue
after a good in-field session and while hanging around outside the
seminar venue I do another few sets, number-closing all three. The best
one is a girl in a classy white dress, HB Salsa, who gives me good eye contact as she walks by – a definite approach invitation. I open with:

Me: Hi. I just caught
eye contact with you there – lovely eyes, by the way – and then a
noticed your dress. You know how sometimes your mind makes a connection,
and it’s not always logical, but it’s just what happens? Well, I saw
this elegant dress and it made me think of…. Audrey Hepburn.

Her: *giggles, smiles, loving it*

Me: What’s the name of that movie she was in? *stacks*

I sit her down on a park bench and run rapport for ten
minutes. She’s recently broken up with her boyfriend and like many of
the girls this week she is going away on holiday for a few days (there’s
a run of public holidays). I take the number and we text to set up the
date.
A couple of days later I get her out for
the second of my two dates that evening. She’s actually sitting at a
table outside a cafe as I walk past taking
Finland
back to her car. The date is low energy and mostly comfort. I’m not
really hitting my stride. She’s really into self-development and knows
all about NLP. This sets my angle for the rest of the set – I
self-referentially run patterns and psychology on her while we are both
aware I’m doing so. A bit strange. After a couple of hours I walk her
through the park and try a kiss close despite it being an over-reach.
Better the inconsiderate arsehole than the polite beta. She refuses and tells me I’ll never kiss her. I walk her to the bus stop and that’s the last I see of her for a long time.
With the Short Game having petered out
to nothing I shift gears and add her to Facebook. Back in London I open
up a weekly chat to build comfort and sprinkle mild attraction. It
begins very lightly:
15:06 Me: Cool meeting you. I’m back in London now
15:08 Her: hey, how was your journey back?
15:08 Me: Tiring. We went to Palanga then Nida
15:08 Her: seriously!! i was in nida till saturday evening
15:09 Me: I was there that evening
15:09 Her: did u like nida?
15:09 Me: Beautiful, but boring. I liked the crosses by the dunes
15:10 Her: i agree with both    did u notice the weathercocks?
15:11 Me: Not sure. What are they?
Once we have a normal conversational vibe I start livening it up a little:
15:15 Her: btw, u left lt just in time. it’s hell on earth in lithuania
15:15 Me: We ran out of fuel at the end. Did the last 20km with a zero petrol guage [some colour, hinting at adventure] hell? too hot?
15:15 Her: yes!!! very very hot      i had to use an umbrella in the end
15:16 Me: that’s lame   [mild challenge]
15:17 Her: easy for u to say, u’re in uk
15:17 Me: it’s hot here too. My head is like a tomato [playful imagery]
15:18 Her:
15:19 Her: so what are you planning on doing now? more travelling, a different job? [IOI - interested in my life]
15:20 Me: travelling, reading, boxing, writing  [cool hobbies, not making a big deal of them] I’ll probably be back in Lithuania too [give her a reason to bother getting to know me, but not supplicating. Going to Lithuania again is all in a day's work]
15:22 Her: writing what?
15:22 Me: a book. Dunno what yet, but I like writing  [deliberately vague, she's gonna have to tease this out of me later]
15:23 Her: that’s interesting. and what r u reading at the moment?

Nothing too exciting. A week later the plot thickens. This is the full chat:
10:52 Me: Morinin’  [assumed familiarity, more casual frame]
10:52 Her: hey
10:54 Me: Are you at work?
10:55 Her: sort of yes dealing with legal docs a bit    u?
10:55 Me: I just caught a cold. I’m lying on my sofa wrapped in a blanket of self-pity  [playful
use of language, continuing the radical honesty frame - she knows I'm
not hiding stuff to impress her with a fake front]
10:56 Her: how did u manage that with this kind of weather??
10:56 Me: I’m special like that….  [more playful, frame myself as different, not giving a straight answer sets me up as a challenge]
10:57 Her: i bet it requires skills to catch a cold when it’s +30
10:58 Me: I think it requires drinking alcohol every day for 10 days and not sleeping  [I like to go out and have fun. I have hearty appetite for life and it's pleasures]
11:00 Her: but i guess that’s not the first time this happens, right?
11:00 Me: Usually only on holidays. I’m surprisingly well behaved usually   [but I don't want to go too far into the bad boy vibe with her - I'm a nice guy with a bad boy edge, that's all]
11:01 Her: sorry, i don’t believe that usually u’re well behaved it looks like every day is a party
11:04 Me: Heh    Any exciting plans?  [snip thread before she gets me to qualify about being well behaved, get her to invest]
11:04 Her: swimming in the evening for me!!
11:05 Her: for me it’s exciting, i love swimming      and no more plans for tonight as i had only 4 hours of sleep well, maybe a book
11:06 Me: Bikini?  [light sexualisation - this is a man talking to a woman] For swimming, not the book
11:07 Her: yes, white, knitted :) looks lovely on tanned skin
11:07 Me: must……see…….photo……  [make intent clear]
11:08 Her: i’m planning to torture u actually      so no photo   [great response, she's not rebuffing it but is just setting herself up as requiring chasing - this is a green light]
11:09 Me: boo. Don’t like you anymore!  [willingness to walk away, but playfully done]
11:11 Her: well, i’m sure u can ask any of the girls u met here to send one i bet they won’t even consider saying no   [she accepts my preselection and non-exclusivity - this is crucial for later if I can progress towards harem game]
11:12 Her: and if u think that saying the thing u said will make me sand the pic, u’re very wrong   [which
means she's thinking about it, even though she won't do it - she's
considering herself as being on sexual display for me which means no
LJBF danger]
11:12 Me: Oh! She’s causing trouble this one! :O  [tease, frame her submissively like a naughty kid]
11:15 Me: Am I still in the naughty corner?  [probably shouldn't have written this - despite the fun angle, it's slightly needy]
11:16 Her: nope in fact, u were never there in the first place just teasing a bit
11:16 Me: I like the naughty corner. I was always there at school  [digging myself out the hole by setting up a DHV]
11:17 Her: really?! what for? i’m curious   [IOI]
11:17 Me: I’d finish my school work quickly, get bored, cause trouble. The usual story. [DHV on intelligence] I bet you were the same
11:19 Her: look, maybe u have skype? that would be easier,m?     and i was naughty the first maybe five years, yes but then i became a good girl
11:2 Me: No skype. I might get an account soon.    Yeah, you’re a good girl. There’s no naughtiness in you now. [to tease her into proving she is naughty]
11:21 Her: that’s the first time i meet a person who doesn’t have skype!
to say the truth i am a bit naughty only not everyone has the
opportunity to see that   [hinting I might see it privately]
11:24 Her: so, how r u treating your cold?     or just ignoring it like any other man?
11:25 Me: what cold?
11:27 Her: the one u had 30 mins ago
11:28 Me: oh, THAT one….  [I'm a defiant man]
11:28 Her: already gone?   [we move briefly onto Skype]

Over the following two months we chat
another four or five times and I’m progressively turning up the
sexualisation until I’m about to go back to Lithuania. The goal is to
build enough comfort and attraction that I can hit the ground running
when I meet her, because I only have a week, and also to ease her
towards harem membership. It’s tought because she’s rarely on Facebook
or Skype.