Rock Solid Game

Our relationship ended exactly a year ago, and we are to meet up
tomorrow to see how each other are getting on and to give back her
stuff. Lauren has met and is living with a guy now, I'm still teaching
and dating various girls.

So, to say a thank you to Lauren - from me, TonyT, I'm posting up her
field reports that she wrote for Sarge School, a year ago, when she was
our official boot camp wing woman.

Enjoy, and maybe learn a little...

"The truth about day game is if its subtle it really works.
If you approach a girl in a bar, instantly her defences rise, as she is conscious that she is being chatted up, and immediately she judges you as a potential suitor.
Day game is different – girls are far more susceptible. I have several  examples from 3 different perspectives that illustrate this point.

Today, my boyfriend, TonyT and I were in a shoe shop. He walked towards the mirror and asked the girl who was sat down her opinion on the shoes he was trying on. He asked her if they looked good. She smiled and said they looked ‘ok’. “They look gay?!” he asked
“Not gay…’ok’!” she giggled.
He was friendly and open. Instantly she warmed to him, girls like being asked for fashion advice. They like being consulted. He asked if they looked too small, engaged her in short but fun conversation, disregarded her answer in a playful manner – then walked away.
Moments later while he and I were sat together she interrupted our conversation and held out a tiny child’s shoe version of the trainer I pointed out, and asked “is this one big enough?”
He put it on his big toe, paused, then looked up and with a serious face, and said “do you have the other one for me to try on?”.
In those short seconds, he had built enough attraction to pull her towards him, despite clearly being with a girl.

My second example centres around the girlfriend of a pua specialising in day game. I asked her how they met and she became excited and animated. Her eyes lit up and she said “it was so romantic…he stopped me in the street, and said ‘forgive me but I had to tell you, you are beautiful, but your beauty is not the most important thing…you have more about you…”
This is an intelligent girl, but she was charmed by the directness. He was so confident, and sincere, she genuinely believed him. She didn’t think for a second that he does this every day. She was captivated by the romance and impulsiveness. She gave him her phone number and told all her friends of this intriguing stranger who brightened her day.
Girls long for passion and romance, and even I, hardened and sceptical to game, felt for a split second that I would have liked such a compliment.

Finally, I was approached by a guy over the weekend, in the day – at a baby clothes shop, for a friend. An awkward looking and uncomfortable guy lurking around the clothes, asked my opinion and what he should buy. It did not feel seedy or sleazy in the way it would if I had been approached in the underwear department, for example – I wouldn’t advocate that.
Girls like men who like children, it demonstrates a protective and nurturing quality. Think back many years to the Athena poster of the half naked guy cradling the baby.
That image sold millions, with that guy sleeping with over 1000 women. Its testimony to this fact.
I suggested the darker colour fabric – more versatile, and less likely to show up sick. He laughed, said it was for his sister’s baby. We spoke for a moment about children; I would have continued with the conversation if I didn’t have a box of mini magnums turning into milkshake in my bag. "

Lauren