Rock Solid Game

Our relationship ended exactly a year ago, and we are to meet up
tomorrow to see how each other are getting on and to give back her
stuff. Lauren has met and is living with a guy now, I'm still teaching
and dating various girls.

So, to say a thank you to Lauren - from me, TonyT, I'm posting up her
field reports that she wrote for Sarge School, a year ago, when she was
our official boot camp wing woman.

Enjoy, and maybe learn a little...

The first entry is a letter that she wrote to 'More' Magazine, after reading an article about dating PUAs. She felt compelled to write, as we were dating at the time, fully aware of what I did for a living...

Dear More

My boyfriend is a professional pick up artist and I was fascinated to read the article you published a few weeks ago on this subject.
When I met him, I had no idea, he was confident and fun. He approached me and made fun of my clumsy dancing, and although he said nothing positive or flattering, he drew me in. He was by no means the best looking guy in the bar, he was wearing terrible shoes and I hated his shirt and yet I was captivated.

I had never met anyone like him.
He told me stories about his life that were interesting and entertaining. He listened and laughed at my jokes. He touched me subtly and led me to the dance floor but at no point did I feel his actions were inappropriate.
I wanted to find out more about him, I wanted to spend time with him and I gave him my number, at no point did I feel pressured or tricked. It felt very genuine.
We started to see each other and then he casually told me about his pick up artist work, and the scene he was involved in. It was hard to take this in and difficult not to feel like I had been duped. I researched the details on the internet and could pin point each technique he had used when we first met. It was text book. It sounds ridiculous but I felt betrayed and manipulated, I felt that the whole relationship was based on a lie, that nothing was genuine. I felt like a mug. I felt sick that he was taking students out at the weekend and teaching them to do the same thing. I wanted to call it off..I couldn't stop crying.
He said 'I wish I hadn't told you this because I knew this would happen, but I wanted to be honest with you. Everything I have told you is the truth. I haven't embellished any stories, I haven't pressurised or tricked you, this is me, this is real, it isnt a lie. Before I became a PUA I would never had the confidence to approach girls like you, but this has given me belief that anything is possible and I wanted to share this knowledge with other guys. I'm not into this to sleep with millions of women, or boost my ego, I wanted to meet someone special..and I have.'
Maybe its naive but I believed him. He invited me to attend his boot camps to see it from a female perspective and in truth, I didnt feel that it was sleazy or underhand. I felt that the principles of confidence building and creating rapport were useful techniques not only in meeting women but in all aspects of life and that it makes for a more interesting and fun evening if the guys that approach you are confident and entertaining.
We are still together six months later, and I cant pretend that sometimes I feel a twinge of paranoia when I know he's out meeting women and sometimes I think 'but what if he meets someone he likes more than me..what if he finds his HB10'

But I guess that's the price I pay for being with a PUA.

Love from Lauren
London